Features

One with love

If only I were Aphrodite, an all-knowing goddess...

Milada Dzevitski Features March 9, 2022

What is Intimacy?

To a lot of us, intimacy is physical. It’s sexual. It's a touch wrapped around feelings and emotions for the person you’re going to share some of the deepest aspects of your life (and body) with.

Selin Ozbay Features March 9, 2022

R U DTF? How UBC students navigate dating apps

With a swipe-based interface, dating apps like Tinder and Bumble mimic social media platforms and allow for a constant stream of validation. This interface essentially “gamifies” dating, according to Goldsmith — making dating apps addictive.

Iman Janmohamed Features March 8, 2022

My journey with virtual intimacy

We often connect intimacy with sex, but it doesn’t have to be. The pressure for intimacy to be sexual can create unrealistic and unhealthy expectations in a relationship when you should only do what you feel comfortable with.

Milada Dzevitski Features March 3, 2022

Hydroplaning

I’ve only known him for two months, but it feels like a lifetime. These drives from point A to point B are really the only time we spend as just the two of us, but I feel safe with him in ways that I don’t feel around people who I’ve known 10, 20, 100 times longer.

Winnie Ha Features March 3, 2022

Building connections through non-sexual intimacy

Non-sexual intimacy is any intimacy that doesn’t include sexual acts, such as physical, emotional and intellectual intimacy.

Charlotte Alden Features February 28, 2022

I have herpes. You could too.

If you get cold sores, you have herpes. If you get cold sores, you have herpes. If you get cold sores, you have herpes. There, I said it.

Anonymous Features February 28, 2022

Expanding sex ed: Resources to keep learning

Although expansive, the internet can also be a deceptive resource. When it comes to the more complicated aspects of sex — such as mature communication, kinks or healing from trauma — it can be helpful to interact with trusted experts and community members.

Tova Gaster Features February 27, 2022

BDSM and intimacy

Communication is an essential part of any kink dynamic. Healthy domination and submission dynamics rely heavily on trust and openness which allow partners to feel comfortable exploring sensations during a scene and to discover each other intimately.

Nathalie Adriana Funes Serna Features February 25, 2022

Missing home

And I realized that we could love each other and have a platonic, intimate friendship. The kind where you can talk nonstop without worrying about making a fool of yourself. The kind you’re willing to put ahead of boyfriends and girlfriends when the other gets their heart broken. The kind people write books and make movies about.

Winnie Ha Features February 25, 2022

[Fl]our hour

You were sprinkled across the tabletop [Fl]our fingerprints, [fl]our breaths

Polina Petlitsyna Features February 25, 2022

Finding yourself again

This article contains mention of PTSD and sexualized violence.

Anonymous Features February 25, 2022

Him

I remember him waking up, and I remember how quickly he kissed me, like it was a habit, like it was breathing.

Makyla Smith Features February 23, 2022

On self-love

I want to invite you to have an awkward first date with yourself at least once a day. Take five minutes to stop whatever you’re doing and genuinely ask yourself how you feel. Treat it like you’re on a first date with someone you’re really excited to get to know.

Eva Rasciauskas Features February 23, 2022